Guiding A Friend: Reflections On A Meaningful Third Degree
Guiding a friend through the Third Degree is one of those rare privileges in Freemasonry that stays with you. As Senior Deacon for Brother Rory Crabb – someone I had the honour of proposing into the Craft – I felt a deep sense of pride as I led him through this important step in his Masonic journey. Whatever else the evening held, that moment alone made it special.
The ceremony unfolded with the steady support of the brethren who stepped forward to deliver their parts with commitment and clarity. Edward Martin set the tone with an excellent Exhortation, delivered with confidence and warmth. Rob Massey followed with a sincere and well‑crafted Charge, and Julian Bloys presented the Secrets with calm assurance. The Address to the Apron, given by Russell Bliss, was thoughtful and uplifting, reminding us of the symbolism that binds our fraternity.
Dan Searle delivered a compelling Traditional History – engaging, well‑paced, and full of character. The Working Tools, presented by Mark Ollerenshaw, brought the ceremony to a reflective and fitting close. Their combined efforts ensured that the heart of the ritual was preserved and delivered with dignity.
The evening also included a proud moment for Brother Bruce Freeman, who received his Grand Lodge Certificate from the Assistant Prov Grand Master Barrie Palmer. Barrie attended with a strong Provincial team as part of a Provincial Fraternal Visit, and their presence added warmth and support to the night. Many visitors travelled considerable distances to be with us, and their commitment was genuinely appreciated.
The festive board proved to be the perfect conclusion to the evening. The room was alive with conversation, laughter, and the shared joy that comes from good company and good food. Heartfelt toasts, warm fellowship, and the relaxed atmosphere allowed everyone to unwind and reflect on the significance of the night. Whatever challenges the meeting may have presented, the festive board brought the brethren together in the best traditions of the Craft.
Looking back, the night was defined not by its imperfections, but by the strength of the brethren who stepped up, the unity of the Lodge, and the shared pride in seeing a brother advance. It was an honour to guide Rory on this part of his journey, and a reminder that even when a meeting has its moments, the spirit of Freemasonry shines through in the support we give one another.
A memorable evening, carried by brotherhood.
Article by Bro David Gardner – Quantock Lodge 4446 – Senior Deacon and Lodge Comms Officer
